Bluetooth Error...New one

I get in the Outtie, start it up and immediately get the "Phone Not Connected...Goodbye" announcement.  I thought maybe my phone was out of range or something and drove to the store not thinking much about it.  After shopping I get back in the Outtie, start it up and again get the same announcement.  I drive home, shut it off, turn it back on and the annoucement again comes on again!
 
I messed around with it trying to check the settings and such, but no luck.  I ended up just deleting the pairing of my phone.  I got in this morning and the announcement didn't come up, but my phone is not paired.  I haven't tried to pair it again as of yet.
 
Anyone experience anything like this?

both my nokia mobile and my backberry are setup to auto connect
 
its not the cars bluetooth settings thats at fault its the mobile phones.
 
Dont forget the cars bluetooth device needs to be confirmed at the end of settings
 
puddy

Yea, I have a treo 700wx and it hates the outie. It is the phones fault, it is not a fun phone to deal with. But sometimes it will do that to me, even though it worked 5 minutes ago until I turned off the car. If I restart the car, sometimes that does it, or turn off the bluetooth and turn it back on, or restart the phone. Usually it is that the Bluetooth is off (because my phone shuts it off if the battery is low, which is often is) and after I turn on the bluetooth, then I need to restart the car and it works fine, just annoying to have to pull off the road and restart the car when I want to make a call, which is why I try to make it work before I leave the parking lot if I am going on a long trip.

I thought maybe the phone was the problem, but my wife and i have the same phone (Samsung A900) and her's works fine.  Maybe it's because they are the same phone that the system is having a hard time differentiating between them.
 
Who knows.  Maybe i just need to get myself a new phone